I was strolling past Peace Mo the other day when Busta n Toppa flew down around the same time...Toppa gimme a lil horn n den yo kno ma boii Rubbers had 2 holla @ his girl...so there I was exchangin smiles n doin cute lil waves 2 ma peeps wen I overheard an interesting comment made by 4 men close by - "Dem vanman dey f***ing all d college girls" quote unquote. I couldn't help myself I had to turn to get a good look at the "observers"....4 hapsy scrapsy piece ah man ana but of course there was a reason why they made that comment (apart from the fact that Constant P had jus lked rather friendly with the likes of Toppa & Busta). I didn't do this then but I intend to some other time - to ask those men (or any other individuals who I hear to be making such comments) why exactly they say the things they do. The comment kept resounding in my head but it's not the first time I've heard outbursts like that. Yes we SVGCC Green Plaid has a nasty stigma to it but I'd be mortified to think that society simply jumps to the assumption that a vanman is "f***in" a college girl just because she talks to him, waves at him or smiles at him. I was amused more than disturbed as I suddenly realize how it may look as I am friends with d whole "posse". Lol. I'm wondering is this what everyone thinks? Is it this bad? Are vanmen really f***in that many of our college girls??? From what I've seen I wouldn't necessarily disagree although 'ALL' is pretty collective n inaccurate...not all college girls have sex with d vanman dem....some have sex with 1....others 2.....some quite a few and of course those who give we school the terrible reputation - the ones who try a little of each making use of the words 'all' & 'vanman' in one sweep. I go to school everday I know what the drama with vanmen & college girls is all about....I've gotten involved in that vicious cycle at one small time and yet hearing such comments still sounds bad...sounds almost unbelievable....You get so used to a way of life that it seems as tho it doh exist sumtimez....Maybe if the vanmen demselves had decided 2 b decent men n step up dey game sticking to at least 1 (or even 2 at the look of things) comments like that would be rare if not non-existent...I've tried to understand the web involving sex, vanmen & us college girls (as voiced by the public n even each other) but I can't make much sense of it...what could be so good about a life like that? The thing is too d vanmen dem mouth so damn slack...dem like sum chatterboxes...what n how n when dey do it ha be shared over alcohol or sumn like a sick Vanman Forum/Debating Group. My neighbour & dem does hang out sumtimes n 1 ah dem ( won't mention d name) na been realize dat d "smallie" he been sexin Uncle was d sme neighbour's neice who's details he was nw sharin with his "club"...dat didn't turn out pretty...homegirl ended up moving out....N I sure 1 time I see dem sharing pics...Mr T.I actually said 2 me dat naked PICTURES (plural ana) of GIRLS (plural) again could be found on his fone...so you see where probz exist too? College girls cah tek all d badgerin n bad name...it takes 2 to Tango...2 hand fi clap...and not evry situation is the same....not every girl is the same....I not sayin d vanman dem does discuss alllll d girls dey ha sexual relations wit ana....d ones important 2 dem they don't discuss them....I guess I'll just have to get used 2 d fact that quotes like "dem vanman dey f-in all d college girls" ain't gonna die no time soon n live my life...the good girls just have to live theirs too...d average person in society can get a list of college girls' names who've been vanmandemized (nt a word I kno) n where and how many times (in which seat in d van all ting)...I've seen one back in my high school days...Peter pay 4 Paul n Paul pay 4 all so for now most pple kno 1 college girl wit a vanman n suddenly all d vanman dem gettin piece off ah all d college girls....unfair; I know:-) People who make such random statements should be rebuked about how they phrase what they say....it's a free world but there are some college girls who actually don't get enticed by a horn, a free ride, a "hot" van with graphics or some aged driver with a "flair"....
